Author: CIL

Nanny Versus Mother

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Nanny Versus Mother

Nanny Versus Mother “Parents are the last people on earth who ought to have children.” – Samuel Butler Today we see many women having children for whatever reason and then going back to work and hiring nannies. Some of them leave their children easily but many leave with a heavy heart. What is especially interesting is that many of these ladies do not have to work or need the money. They are educated, talented, and want to offer something to the world. Today they are able to work for the…

Go… Ask Santa

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Go… Ask Santa

“It is a dangerous thing to accept gifts; for two days after come requests.” – Henry Cardinal Manning Ho, Ho, and Ho… it’s that time of year again. We are in the holiday season…and maybe even in the spirit. For children, it is magical and fun. For those not children it can be a variety of feelings; happy, or sad, remembering other happier times. The history of Santa is a real story. In the fourth century in Myra, now Turkey, there lived a Bishop who came from a wealthy family. He…

Ready Or Not

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Ready Or Not

“Jealousy would be far less torturous if we understood that love is a passion entirely unrelated to our merits.” – Paul Eldridge We have all known a period when someone ‘bothers’ us in a way that makes us feel competitive. Now it can be about anything. How we look, what we have achieved, what we possess, our family, or whatever. Sometimes it is about very superficial things, and I am brought to mind of a woman who said other women were ‘jealous’ of her because of her jewelry. Did she…

Is Love Really Worth it

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Is Love Really Worth it

Is Love Really Worth it “Love doesn’t make the world go ‘round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” –Franklin P. Jones You can believe it or not. Only those who have experienced the kind of love I write about can know this to be true. So, is love worth it? There are all kinds of love to be sure but that love shared with passion between true lovers is the epitome and what people all strive to achieve. Those fortunate enough to have risked their hearts completely, no matter…

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love

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Enjoy Sex… Fake Love

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love “If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins.” – Benjamin Franklin In today’s world where so much is ‘instant’ it seems there are drastic changes in both how couples relate to one another; both in and out of bed. Nothing new here but… everything! Sex is readily available and can happen with total strangers. Go on-line and say what you might enjoy sexually and there it is. Love, however, is a whole different story. You can indeed enjoy sex and fake love. For some, particularly…