Enjoy Sex… Fake Love

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love “If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins.” – Benjamin Franklin In today’s world where so much is ‘instant’ it seems there are drastic changes in both how couples relate to one another; both in and out of bed. Nothing new here but… everything! Sex is readily available and can happen with total strangers. Go on-line and say what you might enjoy sexually and there it is. Love, however, is a whole different story. You can indeed enjoy sex and fake love. For some, particularly…

When Your Children Become Alien

When Your Children Become Alien

“Children are a great comfort in your old age – and they help you reach it faster, too.” – Lionel Kauffman That’s right. If many people really knew what having and raising children was all about many would opt out. Today young people do question having children where other generations took it as a given and necessary expectation. At some point and maybe at many points your children will become alien to you. That of course, is appropriate if they are to become their own person. It is easy when…

Training To Be A Casanova

Training To Be A Casanova

“I have loved women to a frenzy.” – Casanova. There it is, from the man himself. Casanova was born in Venice and lived from 1725 to 1798. His early life included being abandoned by his mother who was an actress, and being sent to live with a grandmother until at an early age he was sent to become a priest! He was thrown out after a short period when found having sexual relations with another boy. He worked as a magician, spy, and translator. In 1755 he was accused of…

Disappointed Get used To It

Disappointed     Get used To It

“Disappointments should be cremated, not embalmed.” – Anonymous (Henry S. Haskins) I guess that means we should forget about our disappointments. Can we? I don’t think that is an easy task. How long we fret, dwell on them or get furious about them is the true issue. Then again, it depends on where we are in life and what the disappointment is. As children we begin to learn to cope with what we don’t like and what needs are not met. Have you watched a child scream for candy or…

Are You A Saint On Valentine’s Day

Are You A Saint On Valentine’s Day

“True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupery   Try that on your piano… lots of luck, especially on the day set aside for lovers. There are lovers and then there are lovers. How does one become a good one you ask? It doesn’t come naturally to most. True love is expressed in a thousand different ways… every day. It is touching, doing considerate things that a partner enjoys, apologizing when you are wrong, or even if not, making life happy, remembering important occasions,…