He’s A Person Not A Puppet

He’s A Person Not A Puppet

“Love doesn’t attempt to bind, ensnare, capture. It is light, free of the burden of attachments. Love asks nothing, is fulfilled in itself. When love is there, nothing remains to be done.” – Vimala Thakar There you have it. We engage with people; not puppets! Now there are any number of men who want to control their women. They do it in a variety of ways. Some include being nasty, strong, bullying, withholding or supervising money, threatening any sort of behavior and so on. What this is about is when…

Marriage… The Ultimate Mine Field

Marriage… The Ultimate Mine Field

“One was never married, and that’s his hell; another is and that’shis plague.” – Robert Burton This marriage business is what I have been doing for decades. There is NOTHING like marriage but marriage! What is currently taking place in this whole arena is ground breaking and the outcome is unknown. It will take at least a generation to assess it all. Today we have choices that were never available before. We can meet people in a variety of ways; worldwide. We can have sex with anyone we choose at…

First Year of College; Neither Fish Nor Fowl

First Year of College; Neither Fish Nor Fowl

When Dr. Charles Eliot an educator at Harvard was asked how Harvard had gained its’ prestige as the greatest storehouse of knowledge in the nation he replied,” In all likelihood it is because the freshmen bring us so much of it, and the seniors take away so little.” That may be a truer statement than many would like to believe. You are truly not fish or fowl after that first year at college. What it takes to get into a ‘good’ college today is unbelievable. The competition is fierce, let…

Getting Rid of Love Is Never Easy

Getting Rid of Love Is Never Easy

” Lips that taste of tears, they say are the best for kissing.” – Dorothy Parker You’ve loved him/her with all your heart, (and body), for a long time… years but the problems have always been there and dealt with. In the beginning, the thrall of love blankets everything. The drive to be together in every way pushes you toward one another. You can’t be apart long or you do just that; long. Getting rid of love is never easy. The issue or issues keep coming up and guess what;…

Can You Love Two People At The Same Time?

Can You Love Two People At The Same Time?

“Love is moral even without legal marriage but marriage is immoral without love.” – Ellen Key, a writer. “Love is only a dirty trick played on us to achieve continuation of the species.” – W. Somerset Maugham In recent surveys, forty percent of women today have never been married. Data also shows that one in two marriages break up within twenty years. People with higher education have marriages that last longer. The divorce rate for people over fifty has doubled in the past two decades. Over 600,000 in 2009. Women…