Breakup Or Breakout

Breakup Or Breakout

“Tis better to have loved and lost/ Than never to have loved at all.” – Alfred Lord Tennyson Truer words were never spoken. To have known love is to have experienced what this life is about, or should be about. The tragedy is that this is not taught. How to learn to love? It can start from being loved as a child, or it can be learned with all its ups and downs as we grow up, or maybe it is never learned. The reason many people can’t know or…

SEXY- SENSUOUS…WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?

SEXY- SENSUOUS…WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?

“In my sex fantasy, nobody ever loves me for my mind” – Nora Ephron Many men subscribe to both National Geographic and Playboy, both of which show places they’ll never get to visit! So being sexy or sensuous what is the difference? In my experience, it is two very different aspects of a woman’s personality and capability. Looking around you see many woman of all ages, some very pretty, dressing provocatively with tight, short or low cut clothes. They wear a lot of make-up and move in seductive fashion when…

Torn Between Two Women

Torn Between Two Women

“The childhood shows the man, as morning shows the day.” – John Milton Whenever Mother’s Day comes up, we are all driven to contemplate from whence we came. We can celebrate with good or not so good remembrances and feelings BUT be aware the past affects today! There are all variety of mothers. And do not forget many people have others in their lives who were not their birth mother but who gave them the nurturing and support, mainly emotional, that prepared them for life. There are any number of…

Resolution: Be Happier In 2014

Resolution: Be Happier In 2014

“Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. “ – Joseph Addison Now happiness is not a constant state. We need unhappiness actually to know what feeling good is. You know if you are basically happy and you can only know it if you take the time to reflect. Some people cannot do that and are like the gerbil running around on that wheel not wanting to even think about their feelings. The body however will never deny…

Holidays And Family Can Be…

Holidays And Family Can Be…

“Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity, or registering wrongs.” – Charlotte Bronte” ‘Jane Eyre’ Fill in the blank. Holidays usually bring a variety of family members together. What happens and how they behave is what this is about. In order to understand the interactions we have to first look at the history of the people involved. Grandparents may represent the origin of the family’s value system. Of course, they are from an earlier generation but they may indeed have set the stage for all…