Is Love Really Worth it

Is Love Really Worth it

Is Love Really Worth it “Love doesn’t make the world go ‘round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” –Franklin P. Jones You can believe it or not. Only those who have experienced the kind of love I write about can know this to be true. So, is love worth it? There are all kinds of love to be sure but that love shared with passion between true lovers is the epitome and what people all strive to achieve. Those fortunate enough to have risked their hearts completely, no matter…

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love

Enjoy Sex… Fake Love “If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins.” – Benjamin Franklin In today’s world where so much is ‘instant’ it seems there are drastic changes in both how couples relate to one another; both in and out of bed. Nothing new here but… everything! Sex is readily available and can happen with total strangers. Go on-line and say what you might enjoy sexually and there it is. Love, however, is a whole different story. You can indeed enjoy sex and fake love. For some, particularly…

Talk About The Big O

Talk About The Big O

“Of all sexual aberrations, chastity is the strangest.” – Anatole France As a therapist for decades, I am always curious about the people who choose not to engage in sexual activity… it’s not natural. The most potent human drive is to connect bodily with a partner who excites you and hopefully one you share loving feelings with. You need to talk about that big O. Now I am not talking about people who have medical conditions that prevent their expression of love physically or the really old people who are…

Getting Rid of Love Is Never Easy

Getting Rid of Love Is Never Easy

” Lips that taste of tears, they say are the best for kissing.” – Dorothy Parker You’ve loved him/her with all your heart, (and body), for a long time… years but the problems have always been there and dealt with. In the beginning, the thrall of love blankets everything. The drive to be together in every way pushes you toward one another. You can’t be apart long or you do just that; long. Getting rid of love is never easy. The issue or issues keep coming up and guess what;…

What Gender Are You

What Gender Are You

“Different though the sexes are, they intermix. In every human being a vacillation from one sex to the other takes place, and often it is only the clothes that keep the male or female likeness, while underneath the sex is the very opposite of what it is above.” – Virginia Woolf  We all are conditioned to the stereotypical ideals of what a male or female should be; what they look like, how they behave, and what they do sexually. Gender. Well, I am here to tell you many people do…