Death Ends The Pain of Love

Death Ends The Pain of Love

“Life is not a spectacle or a feast: it is a predicament.” – George Santayana Ain’t that the truth? When you have loved completely and in every way possible you hope it never ends. The end may only come with the death of one of you. These relationships are rare indeed and often not in first marriages or connections. When love comes at a mature level after life’s many experiences and when people know themselves it is the magic that cannot be duplicated. There are many who live out their…

He’s A Person Not A Puppet

He’s A Person Not A Puppet

“Love doesn’t attempt to bind, ensnare, capture. It is light, free of the burden of attachments. Love asks nothing, is fulfilled in itself. When love is there, nothing remains to be done.” – Vimala Thakar There you have it. We engage with people; not puppets! Now there are any number of men who want to control their women. They do it in a variety of ways. Some include being nasty, strong, bullying, withholding or supervising money, threatening any sort of behavior and so on. What this is about is when…

Marriage… The Ultimate Mine Field

Marriage… The Ultimate Mine Field

“One was never married, and that’s his hell; another is and that’shis plague.” – Robert Burton This marriage business is what I have been doing for decades. There is NOTHING like marriage but marriage! What is currently taking place in this whole arena is ground breaking and the outcome is unknown. It will take at least a generation to assess it all. Today we have choices that were never available before. We can meet people in a variety of ways; worldwide. We can have sex with anyone we choose at…

First Year of College; Neither Fish Nor Fowl

First Year of College; Neither Fish Nor Fowl

When Dr. Charles Eliot an educator at Harvard was asked how Harvard had gained its’ prestige as the greatest storehouse of knowledge in the nation he replied,” In all likelihood it is because the freshmen bring us so much of it, and the seniors take away so little.” That may be a truer statement than many would like to believe. You are truly not fish or fowl after that first year at college. What it takes to get into a ‘good’ college today is unbelievable. The competition is fierce, let…

Politics and Love

Politics and Love

“Politics and the fate of mankind are shaped by men without ideals and without greatness. Men who have greatness within them don’t go in for politics.” – Albert Camus This is true not only for men but for women as well today. When it comes to politics and love anything is game as this election shows us. What a person comes through on television; you see the real deal. Television is an x-ray into the heart and soul of who this person really and truly is. You can learn about…