Getting Rid of Love Is Never Easy

Getting Rid of Love Is Never Easy

” Lips that taste of tears, they say are the best for kissing.” – Dorothy Parker You’ve loved him/her with all your heart, (and body), for a long time… years but the problems have always been there and dealt with. In the beginning, the thrall of love blankets everything. The drive to be together in every way pushes you toward one another. You can’t be apart long or you do just that; long. Getting rid of love is never easy. The issue or issues keep coming up and guess what;…

A Broken Heart Is Absolutely Necessary

A Broken Heart Is Absolutely Necessary

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.” – Neil Gaiman Mess you up is the least of it! It can make you wish you weren’t alive! Some people do end their lives when love has broken their hearts. The phrase itself says it… a broken heart. When you have given your heart to someone and you have entrusted it to…

If You Had Known Then

If You Had Known Then

“One of the sources of pride in being a human being is the ability to bear present frustrations in the interests of longer purposes.” – Helen Merrill Lynd This is certainly true but how much frustration is too much? Each of us has to answer that question individually and one day may differ from another. You may want to kill him/her one day and want to love him/her to death, (no pun intended), the next… or the next week… or month… or year. How we deal with our frustrations and…

Lovers Are Made Not Born

Lovers Are Made Not Born

“Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly.” – Rose Franken   You see, we are born with certain capacities I believe. What gets nurtured and learned then makes us who we become. If wanted and loved at birth, we are off to a good start. If we are fondled and touched, we are off to an even better start. Love includes all of this in the end, BUT it must be coupled with knowledge and experience and intense connection, which has to include talking about…

Be My Valentine Or Be Mad

Be My Valentine Or Be Mad

“Life is pain and the enjoyment of love is an anesthetic.” – Cesare Pavese   Bring on the flowers and candy for your Valentine! Does that demonstrate your love? Is it only what guys do for females or do females have an excuse to show their love to their guy? Love is a two-way street and it’s fun to share all of the caring and show it concretely.The sale of diamonds and jewelry is high for this special day. Declaring your love on a special day is necessary but how…